“I only knew there was something in front of me that was changing my life.” “I didn’t even know erect penises existed ,” he explains. “In American schools you see guys in the locker room all the time, but in Manila, we never did because it’s so conservative.”Īnd since pubescent gay boys can’t ogle just one Playgirl, as Pineda aged, he began accruing more and more back issues through various means - either while visiting family members abroad or by shoplifting them at a convenience store near his house that sold U.S. “My heart was racing the first time I saw it,” he recalls, noting his devout Catholic household. The 10-year-old Pineda lifted it from the china cabinet later that night. Rather, it was seized by his father, a customs officer in the Philippines, who confiscated the contraband from an American tourist and brought it home. Which included Pineda, a slight, 52-year-old bookkeeper with a wholesome grin that belies the fact that the first addition to his Playgirl collection wasn’t purchased. Who buys nudie mags with naked men? Gay men.” “It never really rang true for me because who buys nudie mags? Men. “I always thought it was kind of funny that Playgirl, at least nominally, was a magazine for women,” says Matt Breen, my former editor at The Advocate. “We were a very threatening magazine for men, the newsstands were controlled by men.” “We were put in the back rack in 7-Eleven,” explained Ira Ritter, Playgirl’s president and publisher from 1974 until 1986, in a 2017 oral history of the magazine published in Esquire. Noting that the sexual revolution was well underway, he “sensed the woman of the 1970s was eager to become part” of it, per early promo copy for his new magazine. In 1971, a nightclub owner in Garden Grove, California, named Douglas Lambert wanted to give Playboy a run for its money. While Raymar Pineda has spent a lifetime collecting the magazine, amassing hundreds of issues dating back to its inception in 1973, he was decidedly not among Playgirl’s target audience. Huddled near a chauffeur-driven Rolls Royce in a gothic portico at the Chateau Marmont in West Hollywood, I’m perusing pictures of 1980s Playgirl models with a middle-aged gay man.